Saturday, December 01, 2007

When the joy of the journey began

One year ago today, Paul and I saw Claire's face for the first time. We were on our way to Jasper to celebrate Paul's birthday when we learned that we had a daughter, a girl named Yu Cai Wen. When we arrived in Jasper, we couldn't wait to open our email and see little Cai Wen's face. We can still feel the pure joy and magic of that moment when we saw her referral pictures. Although we had never seen her before, there was a kind of instant recognition like, yep, that's our girl.

All that night and the days following, we studied her pictures like crazy, zooming in on every last detail. Sometimes one of us will still crook our hand in the same manner she did in one pic, and get attention of the other. We then break out in big smiles, knowing exactly what the other is thinking. We couldn't wait to meet her in person, to know what her face looked like when she smiled or what her voice sounded like.

This morning as our birthday boy awoke, he was greated with Claire's sweet little voice saying saying "happy birthday" (although it came out more like "happy bay"). What a great start to a birthday. Happy Birthday Paul!

Here's the birthday boy with the gift of all time:
And here's our little family now, a year after seeing Claire's beautiful face the first time:
Also, a big Happy Anniversary to our travel-mates who share this special day (or week) with us. Not only do we remember every moment of receiving our own referral, but we remember very well seeing your referral pictures online, seeing how unique each baby was, and recognizing the same toys in the photos. We also remember the anticipation of meeting all of you, and are now so happy to call you friends.

7 comments:

Kim said...

Happy 1 year...
Happy Birthday...
What a day...
Love the pictures...
Hugs
Kim

Beth said...

Made me weepy. I still can't believe a year has gone by! Love the daddy and his girl photo - but all of you too. It all looks so right. Happy Birthday Paul, what's up with the scruffy look? Can't say I mind it, just wondered if there's a story?
Love from all of us.
Ava can't wait to be a Tumblebug with you Claire!

Rae said...

We're busy reminiscing this weekend as well. I can't believe it's been a year already, the memories are so vivid. Thanks for sharing your own memories with us.

Happy Birthday, Paul. After last year I bet you didn't think it could get much better until this morning when you heard your sweet girl wishing you a "happy bay".

Have a happy week looking back on your memories of that amazing time!

Hugs from all of us in Toon Town.

Kennedy and Jaida's mom said...

Mercy, you're gonna have me bawling. Ahhhhhh, the memoires. We must keep them alive every year, fresh in our minds and hearts and cherish the friendships that have grown from this.

Happy birthday, Paul. Hope you had a wonderful day.

xoxo

Shea said...

Where has the year gone? Referral day seems like yesterday. I don't think those memories will ever fade.

I love the red thread connection between Paul's birthday and referral day. Once again, you were meant to be together.

Happy Birthday Paul. Happy Referral Day to all of you.

Kath said...

Happy Birthday Paul. Last year at this time all of our hearts skipped a beat (or 2 or 3)!

What a great gift we have all received! We expanded our families with our daughters and our circle of friends with each other.

Thanks for a beautiful post.

Karla said...

it is amazing how the time has flown by!
we are happy to celebrate and share your lives together and to know the joy that you have found in our family also
lovingly
K + A