Monday, May 21, 2007

Baby loves bannock

We went to Fort Edmonton Park today where they had a spring carnival going on. What an amazing place to take a kid! We'd been there before in various seasons but had never realized what fun a child even Claire's age can have there. In addition to the fort and historical streets with businesses, churches and residences, they have a 1920 midway (complete with an amazing carousel, a puppet theatre and a few games and kiddie rides), a huge train, a couple of trams, several horse-drawn carriages and stagecoaches, and lots of animals.

Claire had her first taste of bannock and minutes later, as I was taking a picture of Claire and Paul inside the fort, she repeately gave me the sign for "eat". She definitely liked the bannock!

Just after Claire's first taste of bannock ...














And already wanting more (look closely - she's signing "eat").











Claire was really excited to watch the carousel but once she was on it, she was pretty serious. She didn't seem scared or anything but she wasn't very smiley either.










Claire loved seeing the horses throughout the park.



Friday, May 18, 2007

Claire's week in review

We enjoyed Grandma's company for a week and were sad to drop her off at the airport on Tuesday morning. She gave me a much-needed break to do some weeding in the garden and window-washing, but more importantly, Grandma's company kept Claire stimulated! It was interesting to see how Grandma would sometimes initiate a different type of play with Claire and her toys than I do; I now have more tricks up my sleeve.

On Tuesday afternoon, we visited Claire's pediatrician and the occupational therapist. Claire is growing in height, weight and head size at a good, normal pace, but the pediatrician, like me, hoped that Claire would be fatter! She is underweight for her height so we were advised to still feed her primarily her formula and rice cereal and then if we can get any food into her beyond the recommended amounts of formula and cereal, we should try fattening snacks such as Pediasure, full-fat yogurt or toast with butter and jam. Honestly, I don't know how I'm going to get her to eat all her formula and cereal plus other stuff! I can see her taking the other stuff (because it's different and probably yummier) but the formula and cereal are supposed to be the priority. Just to help out a little, the pediatrician is referring us to a dietician. It'll be interesting to see what he or she recommends.

Claire is a mover and a shaker big-time, so I think she simply burns all the energy she consumes. She's still close to walking (I always think it's only days away!), crawls everywhere, and does the stairs like nobody's business. She's still big into her yoga move, downward dog, as well. Here's a little clip of her practising her balancing the other night. She doesn't practice this much during the day - she just really shows off when Daddy gets home!


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The doctor, having told me in our last appointment that speech is usually delayed, was surprised to hear from me how many words Claire now says. I estimate that she uses the following words correctly / appropriately about 75% of the time or more: Mama, Dadda, puppy, kitty, baby, up and hat. Hat is her newest word and it sounds so cute when she says it because it comes out sounding a little French - more like "at". She almost always puts something on her head when she says it.

The pediatrician recalled that in our first meeting, I questioned whether Claire is truly as old as we were told. At that time, she thought she probably was, based on her alertness, etc. but now she is quite confident of it given Claire's developmental progress. I was very relieved to hear that her birth date is probably accurate or at least close, as it is one less mystery to Claire's past. In all, the pediatrician was very happy with Claire's progress and even commented a couple of times that Claire is "quite engaging". Yeah, we think so too!

On Wednesday, we attended Claire's last Kindermusik class in the Village series. We start a new class in a different, closer location next week. It was really interesting to see Claire open up over the seven weeks of class. In this last class, Claire was the most interested in the other babies that I'd ever seen her and if another mom had an interesting toy, Claire was not shy about crawling up to her and trying to get it. So much for the statement I'd made to the doctor a day earlier about her experiencing some stranger shyness! However, perhaps she recognized that our Kindermusik participants are no longer strangers - I'm not sure. Here are a couple of photos from Kindermusik.

Today we're going to play indoors and perhaps go walking at the mall because it's raining again. The forecast for the entire long weekend calls for rain. Ugh! Later today, we're going to see Rod, Marianne and their dog, Ryder. We can't wait to see them again!

Thursday, May 17, 2007

A sunny, sandy afternoon

After last week's rain, we've really enjoyed the sunshine this week. We just came back from the park, where Claire enjoyed riding the horsie, swinging and playing in the sand with the sand toys I finally bought her.

It was Claire's first time really digging around in the sand and she loved it. I had no idea how filthy she'd get, though (especially when I stopped to re-slather her in sunblock and she was too anxious to get back in the sand to let the lotion dry completely).














Sunday, May 13, 2007

A most wonderful Mother's Day

I feel very fortunate to have spent my first Mother's Day with my daughter and my mom.

Mom, Paul, Claire and I started the day with church, while Stu stayed back and made a yummy quiche for us. (Who says real men don't eat - or cook - quiche?) We then spent the afternoon at the zoo, where Claire especially enjoyed the bunnies and monkeys.

As a Mother's Day gift, I received pearls! Pearly whites, that is. Claire cut another tooth yesterday, which I am thrilled about. It's her left front top tooth, and I think I can see the white of her other front tooth through the gums so it must not be far behind. It's hard to imagine Claire with a more toothy smile but I bet it will be super-cute!


Here's Mom, Claire and I this morning. (Notice the finger in her mouth - I think she's working on her first year molars too!)










We celebrated Mother's Day today but honestly, every day with Claire is Mother's Day. And Daughter's Day ... and Father's Day ... and Family Day.





I hope Claire likes flowers as much as I do! Here, it looks like a strong possibility!

Thursday, May 10, 2007

Our little beauty

I have to remind myself to tell Claire not only how beautiful she is but also how smart, funny, and loving she is ... but wow, she's a little beauty! (What parent doesn't feel that way, though?!)

Here she is in the little red and white blouse my Grandma Pauline made for my older sister, Stephanie. I wore it too when I was little. Mom told me that Grandma Pauline made big sister / little sister outfits from this material for her daughter Carol and my mom in the 50s and then Grandma Pauline made this blouse with remnants several years later.








The little brown teddy bear in the picture is also from Grandma Pauline - a birthday present for Claire. When it arrived by mail, it still had the wonderful smell of smoke from the wood-burning stove in her home.








Wednesday, May 09, 2007

First Canadian tooth cutting and other tidbits

Just when we thought it may never happen, Claire cut her first tooth since we received her! She now has a grand total of three teeth. It's on the top, just to the side of the front teeth. It appeared today and is still just a glimpse of a tooth but we're relieved.

My mom arrived from Saskatoon yesterday with a couple of things that belonged to my sister and me when we were little: a cute little blouse our grandma made as well as a baby bonnet. Here's Claire trying the bonnet on for size, while my mom watches in amusement.














I think Claire is pretty close to walking now. Last week for the first time ever, she took her hands from mine as I assisted her in walking towards me. She stood still for a good five seconds and then took a few quick steps to me. She now likes to practice balancing while cruising furniture or holding my hands - she'll get her balance and then just lift her hands off. She also loves going up our stairs - all the time! - but of course has no clue how to get down and has no patience with me when I try to show her.

Lately, I try to be upstairs when Paul is due home from work so that Claire can wait for him at the front door. He loves the reception he gets from her, because she squeals and waves like crazy. I managed to get a short clip of it today. I'm posting it especially for Paul's mom and dad - I know they'll love it!

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Saturday, May 05, 2007

Downward puppy

If you know yoga moves, you'll know why I adapted the name of the position "downward dog" for this video clip.


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Friday, May 04, 2007

Just one more picture, Claire ...



Seriously, mom, that's enough.

Keeping busy on a rainy day

It's been raining all week and today it's absolutely pouring. We're feeling a little housebound so we keep moving from room to room to keep ourselves occupied. Here are a few pictures of Claire hanging out in her room.


Moving in to kiss Peter Rabbit in her book ...













Claire loves playing peekaboo over her crib rail.


















Looking so grown up in her rocking chair.

Monday, April 30, 2007

That's my girl

Just a few pics of Claire, taken in the last week:

Claire, browsing through a Birks catalogue. I may not have given birth to her, but she's definitely my daughter!











Claire started making this funny face almost a week ago.











Peeking into one of her toy boxes
















Tuesday, April 24, 2007

A few new things

First words
When we received Claire, she already said Mama, Baba and Dadda. She uses Baba and Dadda / Daddy a lot, especially when she sees Paul's picture or when he first comes home from work. She still says Mama but usually only when coaxed.

Before Easter, she suddenly began saying Kitsya (our cat's name) and Kitty. She consistently says Kitty now and as of the weekend, has begun calling everything furry Kitty. She still says Kitsya but not as often and it doesn't always come out as clearly as it did before.

Last Friday, she suddenly began saying Baby and seems to know what it means.

Favourite toy
Her favourite toy is a stuffed toy kitty from Great-Grandma Pauline.

New actions
Claire is really into kisses right now. She kisses all her stuffed animals on the mouth and even kisses pictures of animals in her books. The other night during a game of Peekaboo, she smothered Paul with kisses, which of course he loved.

She also likes to tease: she reaches out for us but when we reach for her, she suddenly pulls away and giggles before reaching out for us again.

Claire's not walking by herself yet but I'm convinced she could if she wanted to. As posted earlier, she's cruising big time and is now even cruising along the walls.

She did two stairs by herself last Thursday but seemed to lose her confidence when she lost her footing on the second step. She hasn't tried stairs since, which is probably just as well - stairs would mean big trouble for me!

For a couple of weeks now, Claire has been able to crawl (as opposed to pulling herself along) but often decides to pull herself along on her tummy instead. I did manage, however, to get a short clip of her crawling yesterday.



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Monday, April 23, 2007

A visit with Ava and her mom

Beth and Ava visited us today which gave us a good opportunity to catch up on things. (Although we usually see each other at a playgroup every two weeks, there is usually so much going on that we don't get the best visit.)

Claire was pretty quiet - just taking in her guests - while Ava was very animated and interested in playing with Claire. She even gave Claire a really sweet kiss, as you can see from a picture I've posted. (And yes, I think it may have been a french kiss from the look of it!)















I wish I knew what Claire was thinking here!

Thursday, April 19, 2007

Claire's first haircut

After much deliberation, we decided it was time for Claire's first haircut. We just love all her hair and love seeing how it is growing in, but it was getting quite long in the back compared to the rest (yes, it was a sort of baby mullet) and so we thought it should get evened out.

Morgan, my hair stylist, was awesome with Claire, and of course all the other women in the salon fussed over Claire, which she totally ate up. As for the actual haircutting, Claire sat so still and just took the whole process in. She even offered a few smiles when Morgan spritzed her hair at the beginning.
Getting settled in ...

Not too much around the ears, okay?
The "after" shot, taken from the back because that's where most of the work was done.

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

More cruising

Claire is really cruising around the house now - pulling herself up, walking along furniture and transferring to pretty much anything that will offer her support. Last week she took four steps by herself (walking between Paul and me) but I don't think she has the confidence yet to walk on her own again. Maybe in a week?

Here's another clip of Claire cruising along a little obstacle course I created for her.


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Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Claire's birthday celebration, part 2: outfit change and gifts

Our gift to Claire was a jade pendant with her lunar animal (a dog) depicted on it. We were told that it is a tradition in China to give this as a gift to a child on their first year (or month?) birthday but I haven't verified this story yet - for all I know it was made up to entice us to shop or else I remembered it wrong.

Anyway, because of the necklace (and also the icing on her outfit), we played dress-up some more and put her in a little red silk dress we got for her in China.

Here's Claire mid-outfit change when she accepted a call from Grandma W.












Claire with her new necklace











Claire's birthday celebration, part 1: the feast

Claire had her third taste of her own birthday cake (or cupcake, as was the case tonight) today and finally had a chance to really get into it as you can see from the second picture. It was just us celebrating her birthday tonight - a very quiet night ... until Claire got her sugar buzz. She was so silly and hyper! We had a lot of fun watching her.

Sappy alert: the next paragraph may be overly sappy to some (i.e. Stu) so discretion is recommended.

You can hardly see it but the little barrette in her hair is probably about 28 years old. My dad was never a big shopper and gift-giver so when he did buy something for me, I held on to it. He gave me a set of little gold barrettes - nothing expensive, probably just bought at the drugstore or grocery store - when I was four or five. I had pretty thick, unruly hair at that age (go figure) so they were already a little small for my hair. I came across the one remaining barrette a few weeks ago and realized it would probably be perfect for Claire, which it is. Dad died just over a year ago; although he knew our adoption plans, he never got to meet Claire. Having her wear this little barrette that I'm sure he'd never remember buying is just one way we can remember him and make him a part of our daily lives.



Our little family













Digging in and loving it!

Our girl is one today!

Happy Birthday, Claire!

For those of you wondering why I was blogging like crazy yesterday, I wanted to catch up so that today's posts could be all about Claire joining the one-year club.

Claire's having a great day so far: she slept in until 9, had a yummy bottle, played a bit, had a splish-splashy bath and then had a great time at Kindermusic. We're home now, just hanging out and enjoying some quiet time together.

We're having a very quiet celebration tonight (just Claire, Paul and I and maybe Stu). I had thought about having a party this Saturday but I'm glad we decided not to fuss too much this year - our weekend was so busy (but fun!). Thanks for all the birthday wishes on our last post.

Tuesday, April 10, 2007

Monday - a Xinyu Sisters' reunion

Paul, Claire and I were ecstatic to meet Shea, Caia, Raelene, Girard and Bryn for breakfast on Monday morning. It was great to finally see the girls in person again after following their lives on their blogs - I knew they had grown and changed a lot but to see it in person was amazing.

Claire wasn't quite herself during the visit (I think she was a tad overstimulated on the weekend!) but she enjoyed herself nonetheless. I've posted some pictures of the three together. Check out Claire's bags under her eyes (poor kid - I had to wake her up to get her ready for our visit). Bryn is in the pink and orange; Caia is in the white Easter sweater.

Thanks, Shea, for having us over for breakfast, and thank you Rae and Girard for making the effort to see us as well!














And even more photos from Easter Sunday!

Watching Paul's dad with Claire, it's easy to see why Paul is such a great dad to Claire: he had a great role model. Here are a couple more photos of Grandpa with Claire.

More photos from Easter Sunday - meeting Great-Grandma Pauline

One of Claire's middle names - Pauline - was inspired by her two Great-Grandma Paulines. On Easter Sunday, she got to meet Paul's Grandma Pauline. As you can see from Claire's smile in the first picture, Claire loved Great-Grandma from the get-go.

Paul's mom and Grandma with Claire

Sunday - a shared birthday celebration

We spent all day Sunday with Paul's family. Sunday was not only Easter Sunday but also Paul's dad's 64th birthday. Since Claire's birthday is tomorrow, he shared his birthday celebration with Claire, which was really special.


Highlights of the day include:
  • Claire's stellar reaction to gifts. For example, when she received a large stuffed toy kitty from her Great-Grandma Pauline, she broke out into a huge grin, said "Kitsya" (our cat's name - which she spoke aloud for the first time last week) and gave it a big hug and kiss.
  • Claire tasting cabbage rolls (well, the rice filling) for the first time ever.
  • Meeting several great-aunts and uncles.
  • Watching Claire squeal and giggle when Great-Auntie Ruth played peekaboo with her.
  • Claire's reaction to her first birthday gift from Grandma and Grandpa. They gave her a beautiful porcelain Chinese doll which happens to be pretty much the same size as Claire. When I lifted it out of the box and held it, Claire's face turned angry - she was jealous!
  • Grandpa holding Claire and blowing out their birthday candles.
  • Claire receiving a beautiful Ukrainian Easter egg to celebrate her first Easter with us.
  • Dorian and Sylvie agreeing to be Claire's godparents.
  • Watching Claire giggle like crazy while playing with Grandma and Grandpa.

Saturday - meeting Mama's side of the family

On Saturday, we spent most of the day with my family. Highlights include:
  • having lunch all together at the Saigon Rose, the best Vietnamese restaurant ever;

  • watching Claire meet all the family pets: Garth, Bones, Sadie, Pockets and Circa;

  • seeing Claire with her aunts, uncles and cousins after imagining the moment for so long;

  • my oldest brother Randy dancing with Claire; and

  • celebrating Claire's birthday (a little early - it's actually tomorrow) with the clan.


At the Saigon Rose

Our nephew Matthew is great with kids. Here he is entertaining Claire.











Since Claire doesn't know how to blow out candles yet, we asked her four-year old cousin Mia to do it for her. Here's a photo of the moment after the candle went out. (Check out the slippage of Paul's hat.)

Friday - the drive and the reunion with Grandparents

Last Friday was our first long road-trip with Claire and it went swimmingly, thanks in large part to my brother Stu who acted as the manny in the backseat with Claire. I think it may also have been due in part to a generous offer he made ...

It all started when we picked him up at his apartment and he was looking a little green from the previous night's activities. As soon as he hopped in the car, he said he'd pay for Claire's college education if she didn't make a peep the whole way home. Well, 100 km in, Claire still hadn't made a sound. Pretty unusual for our happy babbling baby (and she knows Stu, so she wasn't making strange). Stu started getting kind of nervous and said it would have to be a cheap college or maybe Clown college. I hear there is a good one in Paris, I said. At last, at 314 km, Claire let Stu off the hook with a happy exclamation. Stu looked super-relieved, as you can imagine.

That night, Claire had a very happy reunion with Paul's parents. Here's a video clip of Claire and Grandpa participating in a bizarre head-butting ritual.


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Claire also met Uncle Dorian and Auntie Sylvie that night - her future godparents. Here's a photo of the family that night.










Getting ready to celebrate Grandpa's birthday

In preparation for Grandpa's birthday on Sunday, we spent part of Thursday making a special birthday card with Claire's handprint. Here are some pics of Claire after our hand and foot-stamping fun.

Don't worry - the paint was non-toxic finger-paint (thanks for the idea of finger-paint, Marianne!).




















A very happy Easter

We arrived home from Saskatoon last night after an action-packed weekend of long drives, reunions with grandparents, birthday celebrations, first visits with great-grandma, aunts, uncles, cousins, great-aunts, great-uncles, second cousins and even a third cousin, family pets and a reunion with two of Claire's Xinyu sisters and their families. We're tired.

But we're off again on another adventure! This afternoon, we're picking my mom up from the airport for a short visit during her stopover here on her way home to Saskatoon.

I have a lot of pictures to post and stories to tell, so I'll follow up this post with several more about our weekend. But maybe not right now. Whew - I need some coffee.

Thursday, April 05, 2007

Two-month anniversary

Today marks two months since we received Claire and tomorrow will be two months since the adoption was finalized.

It's hard to believe it's been two months already, and on the other-hand, it's hard to believe we haven't always been together.

Claire has changed so much from the scared little bundle of heat that was placed in our arms that day. I've attached a picture of her first tentative smile at us. Her smile these days doesn't look anything like it; now, she smiles with great abandon, a huge grin complete with smiley eyes. She also had a look in the first few days that we haven't seen since. She'd sort of stick her jaw out, which made it look like she had an underbite. That must have been her "hmmm, I'm still sorting you guys out" look.


I'm also attaching a picture of our adoption certificate, which has a picture of us taken about a half hour after meeting Claire. By this time, she had clued in that something was changing for her in a BIG way and she was howling like crazy.
Happy Anniversary to all the families we travelled with: we miss you and think of you often.


Monday, April 02, 2007

And here's Claire crawling ...

Now that I've learned how to post video clips, I'm addicted! Here's Claire on March 31st crawling across the floor of her bedroom.

By the way, Happy Birthday to our nephew Liam today! He's four years old. Claire can't wait to meet him this weekend in Saskatoon.


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I'm cruisin'!

Claire cruised around some furniture for the first time last Wednesday (March 28). My latest challenge for her is to maneuver between two different heights, because I think it'll help her balance and coordination. (Well, that's my theory anyway!) She doesn't have far to walk, though, so I may have to create a new set-up. Here's a short clip (taken yesterday) of her mastering my latest challenge.


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